哈佛大学研究:一个人成为废柴的九大根源,值得每个人谨记

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我们总在日复一日的生活中变得庸碌,不知不觉间,你是否已经变成了曾经最反感的样子?考虑一千次,不如去做一次!犹豫一万次,不如实践一次!只要你能够抛弃以下这些弱点,你就有可能除去废材这个标签。

哈佛大学研究:一个人成为废柴的九大根源,值得每个人谨记

01犹豫不决

Indecision

比鲁莽更糟糕的是犹豫不决。

What is worse than recklessness is hesitation.

像墙头草一样摇摆不定的人,无论其他方面多么强大,在生命的竞赛中总是容易被那些坚定地人挤到一边。雷厉风行难免会犯错,但比什么也不敢做强。怀特·黑德说:“畏惧错误就是毁灭进步。”

Those who sways with every wind are just like the grass on thetop of a wall, no matter how powerful , are always easy to be defeated by thosewho has a strong belief. Act vigorously and resolutely will inevitably makemistakes, however, is better than doing nothing. "The fear of error is thedestruction of progress," said Whitehead.

02拖延

Procrastination

很多时候拖延就是逃避问题和懒惰

Most of the time procarstination is to escape from a problem andlaziness.

著名思想家罗曼·罗兰说:“懒惰是很奇怪的东西,它让你以为那是安逸,是休息,是福气;但实际上它所给你的是无聊,是倦怠,是消沉。”

The famous thinker-Romain Rolland said “Laziness is a strangething, it makes you feel that your situation is comfort, is a rest, is ablessing; but in fact it is boring, tired, depressed.”

03三分钟热度

Brief period of enthusiasm

世界上有80%的失败都源于半途而废。

80% of the failure is due to give up halfway in the world.

几乎所有的人都有过“雄心勃勃地制定计划,心灰意冷地放弃计划”的经历。

Most of people had the eperience of making plans ambitiously,andthen had to give up in despair.

04害怕拒绝

Fear of rejection

厚重而脆弱的自尊

Heavy and fragile self-esteem.

大多数时候,我们在人际关系中感受到的“痛”,都和“感到被拒绝”有关。

Most of the time,the pain that we go through in ourinterpersonal relationships is always in connection with"you think youwere rejected".

05自我设限

Self-handicapping

杀死自己的潜能

Kill your latent ability.

拉罗什富科说:平庸的人总是在抱怨自己不懂的东西。

La Rouchefoucauld said: mediocre people are always complainingabout things they do not understand.

06逃避现实

Escape from reality

逃避现实者更愿意营造一个属于自己的小世界。

Escapists prefer to create their own little world.

人的悲剧在于眼高手低。

People's tragedy is they have a great ambition but puny ability.

07总找借口

Excuses

错不在我。

It is not my fault .

人一旦犯了错,第一反应常常是自我辩护。

Once people made a mistake, the first reaction is often selfdefense.

08恐惧

Fear

谨小慎微的且懦弱。

Timid and cowardly.

09拒绝学习

Refuse to learn

你不是寂寞,只是不想学习。

You are not lonely, just don't want to learn.

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